11 Signs That You Realise It Is What It Is
Maybe it’s just age. Maybe it’s intolerance. Stuff we are unwilling to put up with as we get older. Maybe they are just signs we’re just getting on with life and they’re eleven signs that you realise it is what it is. It is like a personal maturity barometer? Do you think that sound ridiculous?
Anyway, here goes…
- Small talks no longer excite you.
- You don’t do drama
- Sleep is better than a Friday night out.
- You forgive more.
- You become more open minded.
- You respect differences,
- You don’t force love.
- You accept heartaches.
- You don’t judge easily.
- You sometimes prefer to be silent than to engage in a nonsense fight.
- Your happiness don’t depend from people but from your inner self.
They may also include signs of mental and emotional maturity such as:
- Healthy boundaries.
- Emotional control.
- The ability to disagree without being disrespectful.
- Can take responsibility.
- You can admit when you’re wrong and you don’t need to rub it in when you’re right.
- You accept the harsh truths about life.
It’s simple. Or at least it should be simple, but like so many other times we overthink it.
As we grow, as we age, and maybe we mature (maybe) we become to understand what is important and what it is not. I have listed my top 11 signs of you realise it is what it is – I am sure there are plenty more. What’s your personal maturity barometer?
Love to hear yours…